The world of rock is mourning the loss of Ace Frehley, the legendary guitarist and founding member of KISS, who passed away at the age of 74. Known to millions as the “Spaceman,” Frehley’s electrifying performances and groundbreaking guitar work helped shape the sound of rock and roll for generations.
The heartbreaking news followed reports that Frehley had been placed on life support after suffering a brain bleed. While initial rumors of his death were dismissed, his family later confirmed his passing, sending shockwaves through the music community.
A Marriage in the Spotlight: Ace and Jeanette Trerotola
At the height of KISS’s fame, Ace Frehley married Jeanette Trerotola, an Italian-American actress, on May 1, 1976. Their union captured fans’ attention just as Ace’s “Spaceman” persona took the world by storm. The couple welcomed their only child, Monique Frehley, in 1980.
However, life on the road, fame, and personal challenges soon took a toll on their marriage. The intense schedule of touring with KISS, coupled with Frehley’s struggles with addiction, reportedly created friction between the two. Though they eventually went their separate ways, Jeanette remained a significant figure in Ace’s life — especially in raising Monique.
Despite rumors about whether they ever legally divorced, Jeanette largely stayed out of the public eye, preferring a quiet life away from the chaos of rock fame. Yet, those close to the family say there was always mutual respect between her and Ace, even after their split.
Ace Frehley’s Later Relationships
After parting ways with Jeanette, Ace’s love life continued to draw attention. He was linked to several women, including Audrey Hamilton (1979–1981) and Wendy Moore in the late 1990s — the latter even chronicling their relationship in a book that detailed the darker side of dating a rockstar.
Frehley was later engaged twice — to Rachael Gordon in 2010 and to Lara Cove, a teacher he dated until mid-2024. Despite these relationships, none led to marriage, and Ace often admitted that balancing fame with personal relationships was one of his greatest struggles.
Monique Frehley: His Pride and Joy
Born on July 6, 1980, Monique Frehley was Ace’s only child and shared his creative spirit. Known to be close to her father, she frequently appeared alongside him at events and concerts. In 2023, the father-daughter duo even got matching “Ace” tattoos, symbolizing their unbreakable bond.
Monique has pursued her own musical interests, continuing her father’s artistic legacy while maintaining a low profile. Her deep connection with Ace was evident throughout his life — a constant source of love and support through his highs and lows.
A Legacy That Will Never Fade
Ace Frehley’s passing marks the end of an era for rock music. Beyond the makeup, riffs, and spotlight, he was a devoted father, a complex man who lived life on his own terms. His contributions to music — and the lives he touched along the way — will remain timeless.
As fans across the globe pay tribute to the “Spaceman,” our deepest condolences go out to Jeanette Trerotola, Monique Frehley, and all those who loved him. His music will forever echo through the halls of rock history.
